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Anonymous: I Need help on how to talk to guys, like how do you talk to the guy you have a crush on?..your experiences

well i dont exactly have many experiences on that, as i have always been on the shy side. however one way you can definitely get their attention is by being friends with your crushs friends. this way you will be able to have interaction with your crush. also try and find out what your crushs interests are so that when you do see each other you have something to talk about and so that theres no chance of the ‘awkward silence’ taking place. hope his helped xo

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Anonymous: Hi, Im 14 and me and boyfriend have been dating for 6 months..he wants me to give him a handjob like, he always jokes about it, but I feel like I'm to young, I mean its not like I have to, right? He won't dump me because I don't, right?

I dont think that hes the type of guy you should be with. I get that you’re 14 and teenage love is something that you don’t want to lose. But the type of jokes that your current boyfriend is making isn’t funny at all, and you’re aware of that. In my opinion i think that you should firstly tell him that you don’t think this is funny. However, if he doesn’t stop then its better that you two go your separate ways. Because you definitely deserve someone who respects you and your feelings. Hope this helped you xo

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Anonymous: sometimes i feel left out, not wanted, ignored, not worthy, not loved. what's the point in living?

DONT SAY THAT. there are always people out there that love you for who you are, no matter what you do. you just need to find them, and hold on to them. never say ‘whats the point in living’, because there are people out there that are fighting between life and death, and they aren’t previliged enough to live, they would love to live, and you would love to die? doesn’t make sense. i know you might have reasons, but no reason is good enough to question your living. your here for a reason, so make the most of it. and don’t ever feel worthless. remember your loved xo

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Anonymous: I just asked about the guy, but i forgot to say, he's always like caring about my education and like he don't really like it when i get in to fights with people. soo?

if he makes you feel special then hes the guy for you. but you also said he doesn’t treat you like that infront of his mates, and that does say a lot. so i would still say that you should talk to him about it, and share your feelings with him, because he doesnt know you feel like that too right?

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Anonymous: There's this guy that says that he likes me, i think i like him to. And today we were talking on the phone, he was at his mates, and he acts so rude around em, but when ever he ain't with them he is so sweet, like it pissed me of when he acted rude in front of em so i acted moody, and i said w.e, then he's like i cant believe you this and that, and then he cut the phone, and i had like a tear drop, like what do i do? does this mean that i like him too? why does he act like that?

Aww hun dont cry. Well, i bet your in your teens and so is he. and thats why it makes sense to why he acts rude around his mates, you know how guys are, they like to look cool. and it’s obvious that you do have feelings for this guy too, because a guy that means nothing to a girl cant make her cry. So, what i would suggest is that you talk to him, and tell him you dont like the way he acts and treats you around his mates. But, if he continues to act and treat you like that, then you should definitely move on, because i bet theres someone more deserving of you, someone out there will treat you right, whether his mates are there or not xo

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Anonymous: PART 3 - my head always tells me to give up but then my heart tells me if i want him i need to try hard. nothing comes easy. but i really dont know. like omg this is hard to explain and i know i havnt been able to express my feelings properly through words, but i hope you understand me like always.

I do. i feel that way too. but what you have to remember is that nothing comes easy- like you said. so try, and try harder, till you dont get what you want. Dont give up too easy, because if you do think about giving up, you haven’t tried hard enough, because when people try hard, they fail at absolutely nothing xo

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Anonymous: PART 2 - i think im trying too hard in giving bullshits about this guy that probably will never like me back. i think im wasting my time on him. ive tried so hard to talk to him, but you know its like he doesnt want to talk me. in school its awkward. i find it pretty awkward, talking to a guy over the phone, him knowing who i am. but in school total strangers. i really don't know what to do. i think if im trying so damn hard in getting his attention, i might fall in my studies ..

I personally dont think that trying to get someone has any effect on studies. And i dont think at all you should give up trying. If you really want something, there has to be a good enough reason behind it, which being able to get that guy’s love, and i bet you anything, once you get it, all these breakdowns will certainly be worth it. And you also said that he doesn’t know its you in school, so i think you should just tell him its you, as then you’ll know how he reacts, which will also tell you how he feels xo

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Anonymous: PART 1 - hiya. i just had a breakdown for a reason that im complete unaware of. i dont know why i cried. everything is going okay in my life. i love my bestfriend, she loves me. studies are going well. family life is okay. health is good. love life is okay - not the best but not the worst either. so i don't know what im stressing about. but when sit down and think about my love life, i always start crying and i really don't know why!

Well i think thats completely normal. Us girls we always want more and more from the one guy we love. It might be going good, but we cant help but think how much better it could be. What i think you should do is how far you ahve come with your love life, and think about what could of been, but whats happened. Because from what you’re saying you have definitely come miles ahead from when you started. It could have been a lot worse than it is right now, but whatever the situation of it is right now you should definitely feel fortunate for that. It’s all  going to work out perfectly, i promise xo

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Anonymous: oh so it basc means that i should go for things as they will never come again?? thanks a ton! this wwas my horoscpe for tomorw. thank u so much beautiful i will not let an opportuanity miss tomorw <33333333333

Your welcome gorgeous. Andd you should defintely seize every moment, and act like you will never get that opportunity again, so that you can make things happen sooner than later, whether it be good or bad, might as well know things as they are, no matter how ugly the truth might be, no point in wasting time xo

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Anonymous: ''Approach events of today as being something that has, never will and can't ever reoccur. You might feel you have gone about as far as you can go in certain areas of your life.'' please help me explain what this means ????? M<3333333

Sure. This basically means that you should approach all the events that happened today like they will never happen again. Also, you might feel like you have gone as far as you can go in specific situations/relationships xo

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Anonymous: what helps you calm down when your angry or upset?

nothingg really spectacular, i just like to be alone in my room, and just let it all go. its not good to be around people when your angry or upset as you can hurt peoples feelings, or even make them feel like they’re not worthy, so deffo have to be alone to cool down xo

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Anonymous: i stole money from my dads wallet the other dai now i fel gilty what should i do ? hope you can help <3££££333333333333333333333

well from seeing the pound sign you wrote, i’m sorry to break it to you but i cant send you the money. however, if you havent spent it yet then i suggest you give it back. but if you did, just save up and once you have enough money, then put it back in his wallet xo

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Anonymous: that feeling when you're in school or somewhere out, and all your friends look beautiful and you just look .. eh

you should always hold your head high. because when you think little of yourself, thats when you lose, as thats when you lose faith in yourself. you should always feel happy about who you are, and how you look. i know that feeling, as i get it too, but we all just need to get over it , as it doesn’t help at all, because comparing yourself to others doesnt make you feel any better about yourself, so you need to stop being so harsh on yourself, and just be happy with how you look, and embrace yourself xo

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Anonymous: during my summer holidays, should i go to my hometown or spend the flight and other expenses money on renovating my room, and buy cool things that i want !?

this is actually totally up to you. depends on how your room looks right now. if your not satisfied with it, then you might want to think about renovating your room. but if your looking forward to seeing your fam, then i suggest you go there, because nothings more special then time being spent amongst loved ones xo

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Anonymous: im scared in doing my eyebrows but i really want to do them so bad because they r so busyyyhh

dont be scared. trust me. when i done them for the first time, i was so afraid, but i done them anyway because i knew it will be worth it. so go ahead, and face your fears xo